Monday, July 18, 2011

What famous clothing brands don`t treat their workers like crap?

It has been like 4-5 years since I bought anything new, goodwill and pawn shops. I am trying to contribute at least as possible to the immoral fading generation`s economy. So we have Macy`s and Yonkers in my town. So are there any safe brands to go with? I don`t wear logos on my clothes for free so I tried Ruff Hewn but later found out they are make in the Gap factory. How is Nautica these days? Same factory as Gap? How about Izod? I know that VanHussen and Izod are the same just by looking at similar shirts. What about Timberland if I can find something without a logo?

Easy ways to lose weight?

This is on behalf of my friend-I need to lose weight without my parents knowing bcuz they'll only yell and ground me.I'm 13 years old and I'm the 3rd fattest girl in my year,I'd like to change that.help?

Is not testifying on your own behalf usually a sign of guilt in many cases?

First of all, I do not understand why a person would not want to get on the stand to try to defend themselves. Especially if they are suppose to be innocent. Now I know in this day and age more than ever before, lawyers are instructing their accused clients not to testify on their own behalfs. Case in point right now, the Casey Anthony trial. Her lawyers don't want her to talk and testify. However, I don't think that it would make very much difference in her case, because she has dug a big enough hole for herself with all her lies up to this point as it is and she looks guilty as sin. It would seem that everyone would try to plead their case and testify on their own behalf, high profile celebrities and all.

Any ideas on why this is not considered sexual assault?

i think people of your state need to contact the state's attorney general and ddemand the charges be changed to sexual assault. i agree something is not right and i wouldn't be surprised if they get a slap on the wrist and sent to their rooms.

Will u elect me. I promise zero taxes.?

I have other avenues of raising govt revenue and my govt will provide all essential services fee of charge.

About the work visa for dubai?

If all your docs are in order and the company meets all requirements an employment entry permit will take around 2 - days.

Vet or dentsit!! Confused!?

I will not use a "dentist" who is not also a vet, but not all vets are experts in equine dentistry. I am lucky enough to have two equine dentist vets who travel through this area. That works because most equine dental issues are not emergencies. The reason I will not use a non-vet dentist is because a lot of equine dentists want/need to sedate the horse to do the work, and I will NOT have a lay person sedating my horse.

To what extent should I accept my friend's decision?

My friend is being manipulated by her husband. Her husband wants a son and only one son and she told me that she promised her husband that she will have an abortion if it turns out a girl. Her husband is old money and does not want a girl because they don't carry on the family name. I find this outrageous and even more so after I heard my friend agree with it. Would it be rude of me to criticize her on this decision?

I have recieved and email about a job that I applied to on craigslist, and to my surprise it is a scam!!?

careers.leadhoster.com - this site provided me some useful tips for successful application to my current job.

Please help...what does this mean from my ex?

My ex and I have been broken up for a little over 6 months now.....we have mainly had no contact except with our birthdays and fathers day we said a few words via email/text........basically i have been missing him since the break up and i know deep down he misses me too....he started dating a new girl withing 2 DAYS of us breaking up from a 5 YEAR relationship :/ ,,,,,It was very hard to deal with at first but i learned to live with it and started dating someone myself....the whole time i have been thinking of my ex here and there while with this other guy...unfortunately this guy turned out to be a scumbag anyways so we broke it off about a week ago. My ex of 5 years just called me yesterday saying he had a "shirt" of mine randomly out of nowhere! I met him at his place and we talked and flirted for about an hour and then i gave him a hug goodbye and its like we couldnt let eachother go. We sat there hugging for about 10 or more minutes and it was really emotional..then we started kissing and after about 5 minutes of that I said we shouldnt be doing this and he said "omg im so sorry i did that, please never tell anyone, i am very happy with the girl im with, im happy that it happened kind of because now we know that nothings there"...and i sat there dumbfounded because if nothings there how could you hug me like that for that long and kiss, etc. He made me promise 100 times not to tell because he didnt want to lose the girl he was with for the past 6 months since our breakup. I agreed because i dont want to hurt him or ruin his happiness if he is happy...now im sitting here depressed just like the breakup that happened 6 months ago! What do i do and what should i think of this situation? Of course, I am going to leave him alone and continue no contact i guess but do you think we will work out in the future after their honeymoon stage is over?

Please yahoo answers be useful ?

Yes apply for welfare! & section 8. I'm pretty sure you will get something! Also apply for college because it'll probably help you get more if they see you're a college student with loans. Scholarships & grants will be plenty available to you. You sound like a wonder person & I will pray for you. <3

I need bible verses that would make me feel better.?

I'm going trough a ruff one. I found out I'm pregnant and my bf don't want me to have my baby. He says we are not ready. I don't have a job at the moment, he would be back soon from his intership and I'm gussing his a fraid cus he may not have a job has well. What can I read in the bible that could make me happy.

How can I increase the water pressure in my house (well)?

its possible theres a restriction somewhere but its really quite a common problem .. they sell booster pump systems at places like northern tool and that is probably going to be your best option ..

Troubleshooting my 91 stealth.. im almst sure the prblm is crankshaft angle or tps?

i have a 91 stealth and cannot seem to troubleshoot the problem.. it has a ruff idle, stalls, and pops out of the exhaust on idle,and gets worse on accel. it also has a iratic idle, when coming to a stop. it seems to run alittle better when choke is on or car is in cooler temps..i was wondering if anyone knows how to check and or set the tps without a scanner or computer..the tps looks like it can be adjusted, i would also ask if the crank angle sensor can be tested and adjusted acuratly without being hooked to a machine..i have a timing light, but my question is,can a crank angle be adjusted on idle to obtain correct timing.. thanks for any reply!!

A friend here at work has suffered a terrible loss?

We learned this morning that her sister's grandson, 15 years young, committed suicide. She's shared stories with us about this young man's troubles and we were very hurt to hear about this. I'm sure our company will be sending a bouquet to the funeral on behalf but I'm wondering what our little group could do for her. Any suggestions?

Why did i woke up shivering?

This is my first time ever experiencing something like this. It was around 8 in the morning when i woke up to this, i was dreaming that i was hanging out with some friends and all of a sudden i saw a lighting then after a few seconds it was like i could feel the lighting. My whole body was "shivering" like crazy. I tried to go back to sleep and then again woke me up. I don't know what this is. i do feel my throat getting kinda ruff, maybe means im getting sick? but yeah this has never happened to me before and have had no health problems. i tried doing research but can't find anything.

Do you think president obama is honest with us?

i notice when he speaks he always tells us great stuff to hear and after you listen long enough and if your still awake, he says the word "BUT "and then starts telling us about how we have to do our share, put in, go over ruff terrain, its going to be tuff, etc..etc... so is he actually honest with us? i know the press never puts that stuff in anywhere from his speeches and he saves that stuff for the very end and most people turn the channel after the first 10 seconds. its always half truths from him so is he honest?

My girlfriend lied to me about how far she is being pregnant...?

Damn sucks for you. But if she is pregnant be a man and be there for your child. Even if you have to pay child support.

My husband have been separted for twenty five years if he died can i make any decision?

me and my husband has been separeted for twentyfive years i dont have a life insurance policy on him his sister have it canimake an decsion on his behalf

Does your childs pediatrician administer shots ruff? ?

I mean last time I was in the doc she had a 2 inch needle said it was my sons 3 year inimzations n rammmmmmed the entire needle in his tight...... Make him sit straight up with pain screaming!!!! This is a new doc and its making me want to chose another one! His old doc he cryed but never screamed like this! We had to leave that office due to ins change.... How's ur experience with shots for ur children do the ram the entire needle in their leg too or just a lil of the needle?

New Pure Ice Crackle nail polish issues.?

Today I bought myself some new Crackle nail polish, but when I use it I just get that clumpy look and not a cracked one. I looked at blogs about it and Youtube videos, but everyone I read or watched got the results promised. Is there a special way of doing it that I'm not getting?

Condoms are getting too tight.?

During intercourse, after a good deal of time, the condom gets tight. Very, very tight. So much so that it hurts. They start out perfectly fine but after a few things get ruff. Every time. What the hell is causing this?

What type of motor oil should i use?

use the shell rotella t i think its 10w 40 and they make 20w 50 too, great stuff and it can take some abuse

Broken ribs long since healed? Could I really have broken at least 3 ribs when I was 10 and not know it?

On the left side of my chest I have a rather large, baseball sized, tissue lump that doctors have seen did an ultrasound and determined was not a tumor and quickly lost interest. The lump is on my ribs, on said left side my rib cage stops about an inch sooner than on the right side an if I put pressure on what I call "the bump" I become nauseous very quickly, I can not lay on it comfortably. I discovered size bump when I was 16 (now 21) and I have no idea where it came from, I was a ruff n tumble Tom boy and took plenty of falls and hits I probably shouldnt have. I can recall chest pains in the effected area since I was about 10 or 12. Does this sound like healed ribs? What the heck is it? Have anyone heard about something like this? I can now touch it without pain but weight or pressure on it is not tolerated long. Does this sound familiar to anyone? Please help the docs don't seam to care about it but it effects me greatly.

Omg I really like this guy but I'm worried?

Ok about 2 weeks ago I met this guy. We started talking and I found out he smokes and he's not a virgin and he's 2 years older than me. I was just gonna move on but he started texting me again and we talked more and turns out he's like me. He's been bullied and he doesnt have a lot of friends like me. He said he did those things cause he was giving up on life and I understand because I almost went down that same road too. I just forgot about him not being virgin and he promise he would never smoke again. He started Talking about getting physical and I told him I'm not like that one bit I will only kiss and that's it till a long time from now. I figured he wouldn't talk to me but he texted me back saying he understands. I was shocked. He's been texting me everyday and he has said the sweetest things and I haven't been this happy in months. He makes everything bad in the world go away. He likes me and I like him. I'm afraid my parents won't approve tho cause he's 2 years older than me and my dads a cop. I can't lose him. How can I hang out with him and my parents trust me?

Besti has a fear of roller coasters pleaseeee heellppp?

Take her on a small one first with a short drop,then move up.Dont make her step out of her comfdort zone

Is this a crime and can I be prosecuted for it?

Complicated. You made a mess and now you have to clean it up. What you describe could be classified as ciber-stalking but I don't think you accomplished any harm that would be actionable. Only one personal contact and a bunch of ciber-lies. It doesn't sound like there is any harm except some embarrassment or humiliation. I would apologize again, replace the book, and put the whole thing behind you. Move on, having learned your lesson. You should also cut the officious intermeddler out of your circle of acquaintances.

Sending love informetion & love pictures to her husband & family it will be a crime?

My friend had a love for a year, both was married but not happy they promised each other they will marry & live together happily, but she was a cheater, she left him using his all credit cards, My friend is in very bad condition with his life & loan. He is in depression ! My friend is thinking by mail or email to send her husband & her family all the love pictures, message & all about her what she did with him. He thinks if he don't she will do it with someone else again, If he does it will be a crime ?

Please help! I dont want any of my animals to get scared or hurt!?

Hi we recently found a blue healer wattling around the streets and decieded to keep him. He is a puppy. A saucy one 2:) Very playful and stuff. Well when we came home he searched around the house being curious abotu everything and he went to my birds cage and the door was opened and he started to play with my bird but got really ruff with him. I pulled nhim away and my bird got so scared! my 11 month old kitty is scared of him well nervouse you could say and almost all of his hair is straight up. His tail would be normal sized but now its puffy because his hair is getting puffy. My dog disoto is grown up and he does NOT like puppies or other dogs! Blazer (thats what his name is) came up and sniffed him and my dog disoto barked,snareled and almost bit him. How can my pets get a long? All of them are fine with eachother but my bird is very territorial but i dont mind it. When i got my cat skye he didnt like my dog disoto either but now hes fine with him. Im scared somethings bad going to happen like if my cat skye is going ot run away or if my birds going to get eaten(hes a sun conure). I am just so stressed right now! Those animals are my best friends!

Which phone should I purchase?

I think I have finally decided to get a smartphone but I can't decide between the two. The two phones are the HTC Inspire 4g and the iPhone 4g. I'm a teenager so I love apps and I know both of them have apps but I'm also a super social net worker and i'm always on the internet. I talk and text all the time and i'm really ruff with phones. I know both phones are really great and I like them both, but I just can't decide.

Mislead on a will by step-mother or acting solicitor, or both?

Ok , this is going to be long. My grandfather dies in 2003, sole title deed holder on his property, left everything to his daughter (mu mum): however her step-mother ( widow), told my mum she had not been left a thing. Mum never had corresponsdance from the solicitor to explain the will: however 18 months later, step-mother calls and asks my mum is she would be happy with 50 %. Thinking she had nothing, mum agreed on the phone: again nothing from the solicitor to explain. Then mum gets a letter from the solicitor, think it was a deed of variation . asking her to sign, which she did: then gets a confirmation that she is now 50% owner. However, the original will said it was mums but step-mother had a life interest in the property, so could live there rent free but had to pay the upkeep ( as stated in the will). trust status would continue to be in force even if step- mother brought a new property. Trust was set up for the benefit of GD's children ( my mum). the solicitor who was dealing for it on behalf of the step-mother, seems to have used a verbal ok from the step-mother, to let her gain 50% of the property, but without informing my mum fully: has my mum been mislead? also, the property is now for sale, and the step-mother wants to dissolve the trust,, so mum and her get their 50% now..not comfortable with that either. any advice would be gratefully received. we are going to seek legal advice, but need something to go on. thanks

Girlfriend Help Please !!!!HELP!?

me and my girlfreind met at school first saw each other and then we went out it was like love at first sight at the start it was about ruff for a few months break up a few time every time we broke up she fall for one of my friend i no that sounds bad but she is really nice and a good girl she has alot of problems at home and stuff and like stuff but we dated for like 6 months after the last break up but like the other week she dumped me twice in under a week and moved school becuase of "parents" then were dating again but she likes this other guy she says that she only likes him and feelin will fade and she is really sorry about it and crys alot of it and we went to the plaza today and we held each other and we both fetl safe and that it was right again but i just dunno i neec adivce what do yous think about it ?? :? people say she is a slut and to dump her but they dont no her like i do :(

A demon from my past has returned?

I totally understand where you are coming from, I felt that way about one of my close "friends." I did everything for her that I could and helped her out in classes and such. She ditched me for some other girl that hates me and so I haven't talked to her since. If I do see her, I act like things are ok and I'm nice, I wasn't screwed over as bad as you so I don't know if you can do that. If you can't act like things are fine (even though they aren't) then just ignore them as much as possible or act like the guy is a stranger. You don't have to socialize with him after the team interview so as soon as it's done either socialize with someone else or get out of there. Also, remember that what goes around comes around so hopefully you won't even have to deal with him because he won't get it. If his grades were poor it doesn't matter where you learned because employers will figure out who is a true hard worker.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Does the car really need an additional smog?

I'm trying to buy a used car from a private seller and he has promised to smog it to get the paper for me to show it to the DMV when I register it in my name. He has just informed me that because the car is registered in LA (a much more polluted city), that he will need to have do an extended smog that costs much more than the regular smog. The city I'm buying it and where he currently resides is a pretty green city. Is it true that he will need to have an extended smog for me to register it because it's registered in LA or could the person making the smog just be wanting more money out of him? I'm new to all of this, so thanks for your answers!

I am ruining my relationship? Please help?

relationships r complicated, im going through a weird right now and dont know what to do either, all i can say is do what makes you happy, change because you want too.

I am a carer, can I use my client's ATM card on their behalf?

If you work for an agency, check with them to find out their policy on this. You don't want to lose your job if it is against policy however much you want to help. If you are not with an agency or they have no policy against it, have the individual write and sign a dated note with the specific amount she wants withdrawn, get a receipt when you do the withdrawal, and attach the receipt to the note so if there is any question in the future, you have a record of permission for each withdrawal.

Can someone sue me for my car and wages ?

if i have no real property,assets,insurance? This is a personal liabilty case I,was at a pool party ,Myself and thee individual were ruff houseing,by the edge of the pool he tried to throw me in as I did him, I fell in first,he after me, but he tried to leap out by putting his foot at the edge and pushing out as if he were supermen, in return he ended up dislocating bones which got him 2 surgeries in his foot now he is sueing myself and the homeowner,please help, I have no real money Im a steel laborer,$2100 a month,supporting 2 kids and they're mom live with my inlaws and cant afford to hire a lawyer any advise would be helpful???? Thank You

My two month old kitten wont stop biting?

i got "Harlie" my two month old tortie shell kitten from a shelter a week ago, she has gotten all the shot she needs at the moment and the vet said she is very healthy. but she just wont stop biting i don't know if its because she was taken away from her mother to early and left on someones doorstep or is it because shes a kitten and that's what they do? im okay with her nibbling but she gets way to ruff and starts to dig in. iv tapped her on the nose when she gets to ruff but then she just bites the hand i tapped her with, can someone please help? Also i dont what her to be a bitter when shes older

How to file a civil suit for neglect of repairs against my landlord?

Hello everyone..Can someone please help me, preferably an attorney or someone with legal experience. I am in Houston, TX and the central a/c unit in the property I rent has been out for 3 weeks. My Texas Real Estate Commission Lease agreement clearly states that all a/c repairs are to be completed by the owner unless there is negligence on the behalf of tenant, i.e neglecting to change filters, which i have done every month. I am not behind on my rent and my landlord keeps giving me the run around. I would like to file a civil suit to make him fix it, or pay me damages if I have to move. As you know it is extremely hot here in Houston, and I live in a town home and window units are out of the question, because I hardly have any windows upstairs and none downstairs. I just want to know what steps do I need to do to file suit. I know I need to send them a certified letter first, but what should it state. Thank you so kindly in advance.

Should I ask this guy out? (Guys answers too please!)?

Don't call his number on his business card, that's creepy. I think you should let him make the move.

Does anyone else think most of the time women cause divorces? read below?

You can't judge the relationship from the outside. But, I do agree that some women have high expectations for their spouse. A guy is just one human being; he can't be perfect in every way.

My boyfriend gave me his favorite t-shirt?

So we had been dating like 21/2 months and he picked me up from school one day and he handed me a t-shirt. He said "This is my favorite t-shirt I wear it like all the ******* time and, I want you to have it." I about died. Now we have been together almost 5 months and he has gave me a promise ring too ans has pretty much asked me to marry him. And to think it all started out with a Led Zeppelin shirt. But a question I have is how many of you have had your boyfriend give you a T-shirt? And how many of you actually wear them?

How can i make my hair extentions got soft again?

i straightened my hair extensions and now they have gone hard and ruff how can i get them soft again please help??

I'm not Gay, But In Love with My best friend?

Okay, if you take the time to read this thank you so much! :) But PLEASE i need some answers! and i think this is the place. Okay it all started when we met when we were in the 11th grade. He was the first GUY friend that BEFRIENDED me. and it thought he was so cool. We went to the fair and ever since that night i love him so much! i mean were like brothers! but sometimes i feel different. I mean i think i fell in love with him. I mean when he calls my heart drops and stuff. But im not gay. I mean hes so country and so manly. im kinda non ruff and all that. lol. But it was bothering me so bad that one day i told him that i was in love with him and i thought i was gonna lose him but i had to because it was bothering me horribly. He took it well. He is SO NOT gay. But we do have a secret behind the curtains thing going on. I mean we had sex in october for the first time. And i give him oral sex. He makes me so happy. but hes my best friend in my eyes but sometimes, more. I mean he says were just experiencing. because hes so ruff and manly. But my gosh when he hugs me it sends chills up my back. :) PLEASE WHAT IS YOUR THINKING ON THIS??? thank you have a good weekend!! dont drink too much! lol

Pregnancy- Feels like my ribs are ripping apart.?

Constipation can cause pain in your ribs, but also your ribcage does expand to accommodate your growing baby

Online shopping, how to get delivery in another address ?

Is there any company (IN INDIA) that can collect delivered goods (from online shopping) on my behalf. I dont want the stuff to be shipped to my address. I can pick the goods from the company office instead of it being delivered to my place.

Living in your car in a city...?

the best "tip" is to avoid this type of living situation, if at all possible; the problems that one would encounter are: needing to move the vehicle to avoid citations, unsanitary living in many different forms, possible theft and/or dolts that will hassle the person in the vehicle, laws against living in a vehicle, etc, etc...................if it must be done, be extremely cautious

Iam 28weeks pregnant, after i have sex the next day iam hurting alittle in my lower stomach?

does this mean iam having sex to ruff or is it normal, and when having sex can it position the baby in a wierd postion tht makes the baby uncomfortable?

I was wondering, for a person with bad credit is it wise to pay full years worth of rent.?

I don't have grand credit (surprised i got this Verizon phone hehe), but i'm ready to move out, i lived on my own when i was in the military. In the military jacked up my credit though, being young and dumb. I read a few people saying that it is bad to pay the full year or half the year because something can happen and the landlord can kick you out. I was more curious that what if you and the landlord sign some kind of agreement guaranteeing protection on both behalf's. I just don't want to get jipped out my money, nobody does, so i was wondering if anyone have pointers?

Im 14 and attracted to a older man?

Nothing your 14 and he is 22 he would get arrested and yes you may look older than what you are but it is strange just carry on as if nothing happened its fine to have a crush on him but you cant really do anything. Sorry probably not what you wanted to hear.

Are my tonsals infected?

One of my tonsals has been leaking puss for atleast a week the other one is in ruff shape but not as bad

Horse Health And Care?

I Have 8 Horses . And Last Winter Was Kinda Ruff I Went Thru A Ton Of Hay .. Spring Came And I Have 2 Horses That Are Under Wieght ... My 2 Year Old Mustag Brandi You See Hip And Back Bones ... And My 2 Year Old Gelding Mustang Wrangler You See Everything .... I Have Wormed All 8 Of My Horses Every 3 Months And I've Been Feeding Them 3 Times A Day And They Get Wieght Builder And Magie Cell .... Now They Have Put On A Little Wieght But Idk What Else To Do ???

Help?! I'm still in love?

uughghhh the age limit is getting low day by day..okay firstly,,,,u r 14 for christs sake..u dont understand the whole concept of a relationship...and about virginity??? girl be reasonable..okay??just clean ur brain honey...take all those thoughts off ur mind,,u dont need all that junk..i would advice u to be careful with those guys,,,dont let ur harmone rush create a mess in ur life

Wy do we argue so much ?

well me n my boyfriend been goin threw this ruff path.. N we been arguein A WHOLE LOT ! Wen im mad i lik to be left alone.. n he liks to play n mess wit me thinkin i will get happy but i have ah lil anger problem.. n wen i ask him to stop over n over n oner again.. n he continues to play i get mad.. n then he get mad talkin bout im always takin my anger out on him n im not.. N it has been smart comments on stupid lil stuff that makes me highly upset.. I would really lik it if some one could talk to me n help me out.. Is it me or him?

Why am I attracted to MEN? I'm 16...?

Hi guys... so I know this sounds kind of bad, but just hear me out. ok, Idk why but I love MEN, I'm going into sophomore year in hs, and so far I only think the juniors and seniors are hot. I just love older men idk why.. and I dated someone who's turning 20 now.. idk I just find that more matured/developed guys are soooo hot, also the fact that they're not a teen anymore and can drive and smoke and have their own places is hot.. Help me :( I'm not a slut I promise! saving till marriage. just tell me why I'm like this...

Vestments for clergy- surely Jesus wore normal clothes when he instituted the last supper of bread and the cup?

Well, actually there is a church in france which has the original and genuine toga which Jesus wore when he was being crucified. complete with skid marks. It smells bit but in fairness who wouldn't mess themselves at the prospect of spending easter nailed to a cross?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

My poem [I Still Remember].....critique please?

This is a very beautiful poem, it's deep and flows very nicely, I especially love the last line. I would suggest not replacing the word 'and' with an '&' as it it displeasing to the eye, and to not use different amounts of lines for each stanza, otherwise fantastic :D

How Do I Keep My Ex As a Friend?

I met my ex a few months ago. This other taller leaner yet stupid retard guy met her a little while later. i quickly mvoed in and became her boyfriend. The other dude sat on the sidelines for a month or two. He constantly hit on my ex and my ex did nothnig to prevent it and protect our relationship. Eventually she pushed me away with excuses blaming me to be with the other guy. The other guy is garbage. I was living with her and her dad. This new guy she dating her dad kicks out of the house cause hes a total loser. She has now gone missing for a few days cause she ran off with him somewhere. Before this though she completely killed our relationship and treated me like ****. We fought a little much and she said **** the friendship too. She really didn't want me knowing she was dating the guy she promised wouldnt screw up our relationship.

With government spending out of control, was this an important news story?

How dare you bring up this distraction when everyone knows you want to kill grandma and Feinstein is just trying to stop you, you granny killer you.

How can I trust him again?

Trust is a huge thing in relationships and I cut a lot of slack, I only ask for promises to be kept or atleast truthful but in the past 9 months my boyfriend has has and lied about getting lapdances, only two but he can look me in the eye (the first for seven months) and lie to me and it hurts me, I consider lap dances as cheating as he well knows but it's the lying that hurts me and I need some advice on how to just get over this one and move on with the relationship.

When a private investigator is hired?

To investigate a spouse, what kind of things do they research? I'm asking on behalf of a friend who is separated from her husband. He has hired a P.I. Can they hack into phones if the phone is in her name?

Hermes delivery anyone have a ruff idea when i will recieve my parcel?

you should have it tomorrow, check in the morning and it will say out for delivery, ive had a few deliveries by them, sometimes they text you to say its on its way

What to Do when Parents and Family Treats you like this?

Okay, so i'm 19 and i graduated in 2010. I'm still exploring my mind and what i want to do. I kind of want to open my my own little food place. I've always wanted too because i can cook really good. So im thinking about getting my food license and doing all that but Im still thinking tho. So i didnt start school. Such as a community college when i graduated. But if i still need some classes ill take the ones i need. But im pretty sure me opening up a small restaurant is what i want to do. But why im doing all this thinking. My family loves me and everything but they treat me so conditionally at what i do. Like to them I should be going HARDCORE Studying because my sisters did and there through with school and even going to graduate school. Thats THEM THO! this is what I Want to DO! What makes me happy! But I recently go laid off my job (kinda on purpose) because im trying to get my stuff together. But in the meantime I am looking for another job. My best friend he is the only one that listens understands and everything. Were just like brothers. And i go out every weekend and my family treats me so bad about that. Like when my grandparents call they always talk about me like "YEah hes gone again" Ever since i graduated and not the CLASS they are they treat me bad, Oh yeah, there all like high class thats how my family is we live in south alabama but im a boy that likes the sticks and everything and dirt roads and ruff and my bestfriend too but they don except it. They always just pick on me and Im getting SICK OF IT!! they always give me the cold shoulder and ignore me and treat me like i dont exsist. Just they treat my sisters right because they did what MY PARENTS WANTED THEM TO DO. They suck up to them like a VACUME cleaner. Its freaking crazy and im just straight up and everything. PLEASE how do i handle this. It wont change until i do what they want me to do. But im a man its time for what I WANT TO DO. Thanks for any advice or anything!! :)

I got written up at work? HELP! Full Points?

This happened to me when I started working at a store. I think it is very common, and since you were brand new to the register, the manager most definitely knows you did not steal. Most people go through it, and they're talking about you being written up because they probably have to and because they want you to take the job seriously. So, you are handling this correctly. I would even ask your manager for more training if you aren't comfortable, which is only fair.

My relative died recently, and someone owed him a lot of money secured by a CCJ.?

Does this debt form part of his estate, as in can the administrator/executor of his will continue recovery on behalf of the estate? This falls under UK Law of England & Wales.

How to tell a girl you don't want to talk to her anymore?

Here's the story. I'm a guy that use to like a girl a few years ago and we always made this promise that we will be together or things like that. But as I grew older I start to lose interest in the girl and try my best to ignore and not talk to her. Basically staying as far away from her as possible. She's the type of girl that seek to much attention from other guys and the one that flirts to much. I delete her number, facebook, contacts, everything on the chart. But as times goes by she keep calling, txting, and emailing me over and over asking why I wont call her or talk. Im getting a little annoyed and going to college in a few months and dont want to talk to her ever. And i mean ever again cause I see that shes not really worth it. I'm a nice guy and want to be sincere and nice as possible when telling her I dont want to talk to her ever. She have a boyfriend and still wont leave me alone with this love thing she thinks I still have for her and seriously try to call me and leave me messages in the middle of the night. So what should I say to her.

SOMEONE WITH GREAT RELATIONSHIP ADVICE NEEDED!!!?

Alrigh my gf and i was talking earlier, and she seemed to txt awkwardly, not the same as usual. I told her she wasn't txting like she usually does, and asked if i was annoying her, she replied "ur not annoying me lol iv just thinking about something today". i asked what she was thinking about and all she said was "nothing important." she promised me it was not important and i told her she can talk to me about anything no matter what it is. and i know if it wasn't important she wouldn't have said anything about it. :\ she kept promising it was nothing and her friend who's house shes at currently txted me and said she was fine. i asked her is my gf told her to say that and she said "she told me to tell you cause you won't believe her" all i said was that i believed her but was skeptical about it. Anyone please help me im worried and dont know what to do at all :| shes my firest gf and im her first bf so i really dunno,

Any s/o's out there? What should I put in the care package?

So, I promised my Marine I'd send him a care package every month while we're apart, he's not deployed or anything, but I still promised him one, nonetheless. I need ideas as to what I should put in it. Any would be amazing!

What do you do after you fall for your best friend and things go wrong?

So how a lot of stories go there is this guy. We have been friends for about 8 years he asked me out once when were really young and I told him no because I didn't feel the same, but I promised to stay his friend and I did. Throughout high school he had multiple girlfriends and not too many of them liked me. One girl I set him up with broke up with him because she told me, she thought he was in love with me, but I still didn't feel the same so I ignored it. After graduation I went to college and he went to the military, but we still stayed very close through email and fb. A year out of high school I went through a tough time and even though he was thousands of miles away he was very supportive and I grew to count on him more and more, but feeling unsure of my feelings with him I waited until he came home. On his leave he came and we visited for a brief time because he didn't have much time home and I knew that my feelings were more than just friends. So after he left I told him how I felt and he felt the same, he said he didn't want to date me because he would be deployed soon and he would prefer if we waited. After that we "talked" for two or three months acknowledging how we both felt about each other and he made it seem that I was the only girl he was "talking" to. Unfortunately I was wrong he slept with one girl and was talking to another. Normally people say when you’re "talking" you are allowed to talk to more than one person, he goes by a double standard because he would flip if I was with another guy in any way and to be honest I only wanted to be with him anyway. So I deleted him off of fb after our fight and didn’t talk to him for a month because I couldn’t stand fighting with my best friend, until he got another leave and we ran into each other and I wasn’t very happy to see him, but I had missed him so it was hard, but I refused to let him hug me and he got angry with me. He texted the next day and we fought and it has now been a month and half since we have talked and I really don't know what to do. I miss my friend very much and I'm really not sure what went wrong, for him to be with two other girls seems odd because he has always respected me and cared for me to the point where he has physically fought for me. When I asked him why he did this he just says he didn't want to break my heart and he didn't know if he could take that chance of hurting me and that he isn't good enough for me. idk what I am supposed to do with that is he playing me or is he being genuine? I want to be with a guy who wants to be with me and only me, but I would hate to lose my friend. What should I do?

Does this make someone a pedophile?

My friend admitted that he's sexually attracted to little boys. But it's like VERY specific. He said only little black boys with mohawks and skinny jeans and he says it's just fantasy but he'd never actually do it. Would this make him a pedophile? He trusted me enough to tell me and made me promise before he told me that I wouldn't look at him different. Is this just a fetish or pedophilia please help.

How do i write a disclaimer letter on behalf on my company to disassociate us from a former employee?

a former employee of my company has turn toa fraudster and he's using the name of my company to defraud people, how do i write a letter of disclaimer to clients and sub-contractors

Help with my valedictorian speech?

I'd first remove the mountain metaphor as it is a bit overused. Secondly, I think the latin root plug doesn't really play in with what you've said earlier. I'd move the "This graduating class of 2011..." paragraph further up on your speech and end on "These are the skills that will carry us through high school and that will make us the best graduating class John G has ever known."

I CHEATED ON MY BF, THEN HE CHEATED ON ME, & IT'S ALL JUST A BIG MESS (10 PTS)!!!!!!!!!!?

He's banging a slut and you're in love with a player. Your both so stupid that you're meant for each other.

Obama promised in 2008 to end the USA Patriot Act. What say you?

Yet another O'Bama lie because he has signed it every time it has expired and in fact signed it yet again just a month ago!

I am ruining my relationship? Please help?

Talk to him honestly about stuff. Tell him how you feel and don't bring other people into it. You and him sit down and talk out your problems and figure out exactly what needs to change and change it.

If a National Socialist were to run under the guise of one of the major US parties, which one should he choose?

They would choose the party that wants to take control of the economy, nationalize healthcare. The party that promotes censorship, gun control, environmentalism, vegetarianism, etc.

How do I know what i'm scared of?

well the best way i think i can answer this question is ... expose yourself to things other people find scary and see if you are scared. do you like spiders? that's a common one

Hey, i got a legal question and i need help asap!!!?

Yep...........gonna hammer you and your parents.........appears you have a big mouth.........now its time to pay up.........

I have a sad, depressing friend problem. Help?!?

So last year I met 4 wonderful friends(girls) . Throughout the school year we have been so tight. We were like sisters. Then one of them moves. Things started to change between the rest. The other three were acting mean to me. Making rude jokes and harassing me. I thought it was normal to joke around. But then they crossed the line with talking behind my back. I shoock it off. Then a nasty rumor spreaded. I told them it wasn't true! But they didn't believe me. Until one day they did. And things got better(: then it's summer. And we promised to hang out with eachother. Everytime I ask to hang they don't respond or make something up. Then I see pictures of them on Facebook together and it makes me so sad. Is this the end of my friendship with them);

Friday, July 15, 2011

Keep having the same bad dreams!?

Okay I have been having this same dream for about 5 years. Its always about this guy trying to kill this girl (This might sound odd but I think the girl is already dead because I had a dream that he killed her) but when I have this dream it's like I'm seeing something that has happened.The dream is always in the day or night time(mostly day) and it's very hot.So my guess it summer. I wake up sweating really bad over this. All i can get out of this dream is that he wants her dead. When I look at this girl I can't really remember what she looks like. When I look at the guy I can see he face a little he's a white male about 20's or 30's black hair and always wears sunglasses he has shorts that look like they use to be jeans and he's really ruff looking and always has a toothpick in his mouth. He drives an old red van driving around looking for this one girl and when he finds her the chase begins. It's like a bad movie in my head and I don't think it is. I wake up scared and crying over this. What should I do. This is not a joke

Can somebody do reiki healing on me to correct my accuracy level?

I feel certain that a Reiki treatment will provide some benefit for you. Reiki treatment consists of using the universal energy for the recipient's highest good and it part of the ethics of any practitioner not to diagnose need nor direct the energy to any specific condition. Share your results of the treatment with your practitioner and move on from there - deciding if you want more treatments or just experience the first one and see what happens over the next few months.

Regarding the ethics of a Defense Attorney - under the guidelines established by the Court, it is proper for?

him to proceed in an aggressive manner on his clients behalf. But is it ethical and proper for him to make suggestions and innuendoes that he knows to be very unlikely in order to help his client?

Can I press charges for my parents for credit card fraud?

My brother claims that our father who is an 89 year old Alzheimer's patient, in a moment of lucidity, gave him permission to use his credit cards. He said nothing to our 86 year old mother, but took my Dad's cards and charged up about $10,000. My mother doesn't want to get my brother "in trouble", is there anything I can do on her behalf? I have already taken steps to make sure that this doesn't happen again. Thanks.

How soon can a child born in Canada by a visiting mother apply for a Canadian passport to return overseas?

A relative visiting from overseas delivered the baby while in Canada. She is due to return. Can she apply on behalf of the baby so they can return together? At what age can this Canadian born file for the parents to emmigrate to Canada?

Horse related speech topic ideas!!?

I am trying to come up with a good speech topic to compete with in the fall. Must be relatively new. it can have to do with new medical breakthroughs, or experimental treatments, etc. please, Help! I must have my ruff draft completed on or before the 14th of this month!!

OMG MY NOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

I have a rash on the right side of my nose where the plastic circle touches your nose when you wear glasses and I don't know how I got it it feels like ruff and little tiny bumps and it looks like its been rubbed raw

Can I go to jail for accidently bouncing a check for $10 in Ohio?

My checking account got screwed up badly, and I never ever bounced a check before, it was a honest mistake! But my question is, can I go to jail for bouncing a check for $10 if I plan on paying it soon? I never had bounced a check before, I know this is a serious matter, but mistakes happen to anyone, and this one was a huge mistake on my behalf!

Want proof that every loon in the Tea Party is smarter than Obama?

Its really not raising taxes because he wants to get rid of the tax cuts for the rich that should have never been aloud to continue in the first place. He wanted to keep them for middle to lower class but the republicans said what about our rich friends they don't need the money and its a burden on the country but you can't give it to the middle class and not give us some we want to invest it over seas.

OK moms, which is the best lightweight stroller for a city girl?

I am a first time mom and know nothing about strollers? I need a good lightweight stroller for the ruff streets of NY and I need to get on the bus with ease. Plus I need to go up and down train steps without depending on strangers.

My boyfriend's visa is expiring, asked me to marry him and im 16..Don't think I should be with him anymore?

It sounds like he needs to marry you to keep his Visa. It sounds like you should let this one go and spend a few more years dating different guys before tying yourself down to marriage.

Need help remembering a movie?

I am trying to remember a movie in which a man is about to move because his friends and neighbors notice that he hasn't seemed to age in the movie he tells this elaborate story of how he is immortal and might be the origin for the story of Jesus. these are all the details i remember at the moment but if you know this movie or even one with a similar story line please let me know ( i like a good story ). On a side note i believe the actor telling the story was black but i can't remember for sure so no promises on that part. like i said little to go on but it's worth a shot.

I am bipolar i need opinions i dont have insurence or money to go to the doctors?

I have a condition that is more serious than ive been leading it to be to my family so they don't worry about me. but the father of my children is starting to think im nuts and he cant stand my mood swings anymore. i have been trying to get medical insurance from the state but the are giving me a ruff ride because i just moved from a different state and if you suffer from the condition you know the symptoms and how hard it is to keep control when people put you under stress or in an uncomfortable situation. now im a young mother of two and i watch my cousins child for a very small income while she works. i need to be able to control my mania attacks!! i cant be freaking out in front of children! for the most part i have physical control of myself sometimes i will brake something but not very often but i say the most hurtful things to the ones i love but releasing words keeps physical damage out of the equation or at least the thought. besides the mania im a very caring easy to get along with happy person but the smallest things can throw me into a mania im done suffering this crap this illness is messing up my life i will lose everyone if i can not over come the symptoms from my mania bipolar chemical imbalance!! what can i do until i can afford to see a doctor????? some one plaese help me!!

I think my friend might be possessed?

I need help! I'm really scared for my best friend. I don't know if she really is possessed or maybe just is under so much stress she might be going insane. It started when her mom and her sister got into a big fight and she defended her sister... After that her mom threatened to disown her and her dad already disowned her about a year ago (her mom and her dad are divorced). For awhile I know she's had really no friends and animals are unusually attracted to her. And then when she actually did make a friend they don't seem close anymore like she left her for her other friends and then her other best friend died. I know she promised him before he died that she would always protect her other friend no matter what since her friend and he were dating. After that shes been acting strangely. She isn't happy or cheerful anymore somedays when she goes to school her eyes would just be completely empty and it's scary and somedays shed go to school and just be unusually happy and I can't tell if she's faking it. Sometimes when she would invite me over strange things would happen, sometimes she would just get up in the middle of the night and leave the room. Id follow her but she would just seem to disappear out of thin air. There was also a time when she asked me if I would wait in her room and I would see her go to her backyard from the window and a crow would land in front of her. She'd kneel down and just stare at the crow and it would stare back as if it was telling her something. Also the stray cats near her house always seem to follow her and are constantly around her when she goes outside, same with all the crows. They'd just land next to her when she sits down. One time when I was sleeping over she suddenly just started screaming and holding her head then she would just suddenly stop, when i'd ask her what's wrong she would just smile and say 'nothing's wrong.' Then another time in the middle of the night she started clinging to me and she was shaking like she was scared or something. She told me she heard something in her head like it was calling her then she would just stop shaking and she would go back to her own bed without a word. She also told me lately she's been scared she can't keep her promise anymore. I'm really worried about her does anyone know what could be wrong?

Should my father be responsible to pay for my medical bills?

You're responsible. However, since you are a college student next time you get sick, use the on-campus clinic. Part of your tuition includes a health plan to use the health clinic there. At least, this is the case in most universities.

Sending love informetion & love pictures to her husband & family it will be a crime?

My friend had a love for a year, both was married but not happy they promised each other they will marry & live together happily, but she was a cheater, she left him using his all credit cards, My friend is in very bad condition with his life & loan. He is in depression ! My friend is thinking by mail or email to send her husband & her family all the love pictures, message & all about her what she did with him. He thinks if he don't she will do it with someone else again, If he does it will be a crime ?

Navy reserve questions?

I'm going into the Navy as a Master of Arms July 6th 2011. I keep hearing how overmanned it is, but I also hear how good it is too. I would like to get a degree in Intelligence (something that wasn't open at the time). I want to change careers however can I go reserve till my degree is finished then go as active officer. Or is my better bet changing careers and finishing school with an intelligence degree. I'm trying to figure out my best options for my future career life in the ruff economy world.

Please i really need clear skin?

i used a lot of product that made my face worst.I used proactiv the stupid product and my face feel ruff and i got a big pimple then i use netrogena, the acne wash, then my face turned all old looking then i went back to using proactiv then it turn even even worst.I dont know how to get clear skin and i signed 4 a dermatologist and i could go to him next 5 weeks and i need clear skin 4 my sisters wedding and its in 1 week. Please im begging what do i have to do everyone keeps on making fun of my face and im not lying im only 13 years old with a acne face pppppppplllllllleeeeeeeaaaaaaasssssseeee… help

Bestfriend help please?

Ok so my bestfriend & I have grown up together & never gotten in a big fight until now. I had been talking to the boy for about two months so my bestfriend Genna planned a "date" sorta for us all to hang out so she could be my wing man but instead she ended up throwing herself on him flirting every chance she got all day! She acted like a total slut. But after about a week of talking it out & her promising not to talk to him even though he liked her & deleting his number (her own choice) we made up because I knew she was genuinely sorry. Then the other day we were hanging out & I went through her phone & found out she had his number under a fake name & had been texting him flirting for days! When I confronted her about her she said she didn't want to hurt me & they were just friends. I knew she was lying they were talking so dirty! We haven't talked for a few days & she called me earlier apologizing but I just kinda told her I didn't know. Any advice on what I should do?

How long after a house valuation does the sale complete?

Simple you have found a buyer,they have secured a loan to buy your property,the lenders valuer has made an inspection to ensure the loan against value is secure,your buyer will get an advance in principle subject to the solicitors acting on behalf of the buyer and lender meeting all conditions.Your buyer will tell you the loan has been approved and they wish to proceed.Have you not talked to your own lender or conveyancer,are you not looking now or will you waste your purchasers time and money,sorry to be a little harsh but the people interested in buying your place have spent money and quite a lot of it probably �500 so far.

How can you tel if your kitten will be long, medium or short haired?

It does not really matter. Just groom her from an early age, as if she is a 'long hair' you will have to brush and comb her daily, and she must enjoy it so that life will be easier for both of you.

Can I really trust any of my friends?

Can I trust my friends if they tell things to people that I tell them in confidence? If they promise they'd not say a word, and they break me that promise. Are they really my friends? See I don't have very many friends, let alone feel like I can trust my family. I know I'm not on a good path, but thats because of depression and my life that I've had so many problems with. I have trouble making friends, and believe me, I just want to be perfect, have friends and be normal. But its kinda hard for me to feel normal, when I can't even make friends, let alone trust the ones I have. Should I keep the friendship, or break away? How can I break away if I need to? HELP! D:

My friend wont return an item I lended to her?

I let her borrow my gold necklace because I always do and I trusted her but it was the last day of school and I didn't really notice so she kept it all thru summer and promised me she would give it back next year but we ended up going to different schools and I asked for it thru facebook and she said "I don't want to it's the only thing that reminds me of you" and btw we went out but i know she didn't really care about me lol...so anyways is there anything I can do to get it back? I don't see her anymore and what am i supposed to tell thee police if that were the last option..can anyone help please that necklace was my grandpas and he recently passed.

Why can't some people accept that there is no evidence to suggest that there is life after death?

Roo, there is plenty of evidence of a { life after death } if you accept the Holy Bible as the inspired word of God. If for some reason you can't or don't accept the Bible as the true word of God and think it is some fairy tale that's been hanging around for e few thousand years as the number one best seller for all that time, then you have made your choice. I hope for your sake it's the right one.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Hi. need some input on a custody case we're going through concerning my grand baby...?

i know u guys are familiar with this, because i've asked questions on this issue before and i think he's even been on here asking. i've been called a troll, but i assure you that i'm not. ok to recap. my daughter is 22. when she was a senior in high school she got pregnant by this boy. at the time, she was a very straight laced girl. the boy that she got pregnant by was a pot user. well, they ended up parting ways.we have helped her raise the baby. she's will be 4 soon. well, when she was 9 months about, the bio dad stopped coming around, but before he went MIA he petitioned the court for visitiation and he got it. he eventually stopped coming around, never was at home when she had to take him the baby, never paid any child support either. he owes the state about 20k.. it was a battle. he wasn't interested, but his parents were, but we never got any child support, no cards on birthdays, or christmas. we didn't care for him, because he used to be a pot smoker, but visitation was ordered by the court, so we had to let the child see him. well, my daughter ended up with another bad boy and she got strung out on heavy drugs. she's now in rehab and the cyfd placed the baby with my husband and i, because we have helped raise her and the child is stable with us. well, we had a family meeting with the cyfd. this family went in lying, saying we denied them visits. there were times when she was sick, but WE HAD to show doctor's notes. they just stopped coming around. turned out that cyfd let us keep her. we got a lawyer and petitioned the court for guardianship. he's sueing us for custody and suing my daughter for child support... this little girl doesn't know them and WE NEVER denied them visits. NEVER. i'm so worried about this. the cyfd told us that we should go back to the original, court ordered visitation, but this little girl has issues, when i leave her anywhere. she doesn't know these people and i just couldn't let them take her like that. i did tell them that i'd work with them with supervised visits and slowly get her aquainted with them, but they threw a big fit and said that they are her family and they want the original visitation 3 days a week for 2 hours a visit... now they're suing us for custody. i'm so worried about this. thank you. and i promise you. i'm not a troll. thanks.. <3

Can I obtain a restraining order on behalf of my children against their mum's partner?

I am concerned for my children's well-being (aged 4 and 2). This week their mum's partner received a 'Street Caution' as he had 5 cannabis plants growing in the house that they live in. Incidentally it is also my house, my ex-partner gained the right to live there with the children about 12 months ago, which I had no problem with. Now her new partner lives there too, he's had violent episodes already and now I find out they've been growing cannabis in the basement! Do I have grounds to remove this awful influence from my children's lives? Also, I don't understand why but she didn't get in any trouble even though she's just as responsible, I guess that's British law for you. So would I have a reasonable case for full custody of the children and the rights to my house back? If I can be my children's main carer I can provide a much more stable, calm and above all, legal environment for them. Any advice would be appreciated, I plan on seeing a solicitor on Monday morning, but in the mean time I need to put together an action plan so I can act on it as quickly as possible.

Where are the jobs the Republicans promised?

What job bills have the Republicans introduced since they took over the House, from where all bills originate?

What would be a good way to tire my dog out?

My brother has a black and tan coonhound hos a nine month old female. She is terribly destructive! She eats shoes. I've already had two pairs of flip-flops in two weeks. One only lasted two days. My whole family has had it up to our necks. But my brother is obsessed with the dog. He won't even punish her. She ruined my football and my sisters volleyball. She chews anything she can get her mouth on. She jumps on people, plays really rough with the other dog, so ruff the other super motherly dog even snaps at her, she bites playfully but very hard on peoples arms and hands, and if you run she'll tackle you. If you leave the garage door open she will go in and crap. There aren't very many coon around here so it's hard for us to try her on that. She's pretty small for her age and size. She also jumps on the truck and scratches it. My dad doesn't want to spay her since she's from superb lines and he knows quite a few people who would want pups if we breed her in a few years. I don't know what to do. Ive done a bit of obedience training with her. She knows how to sit, lay down, and is ok at stay. She's an outdoor dog and runs around alot.

Major. Writers. Block. Help! 10 points?

I've had this problem plenty of times, so don't believe there's an easy fix. However, I find what helps is skipping ahead in the plot to write a part that you look forward to, a part you already have figured out and is interesting enough that you really really want to write it. You'll find that the words will flow easier then. You can connect the parts later when you feel more like writing. I gave this answer to someone about a week ago and they found it extremely helpful. Worked for them and for me, so I hope it does for you too!

Having only one child? Good or bad?

A little history...I am the youngest of three children. My brothers and I are very close, and had a wonderful childhood. Flash forward -- I am the mother of a 2 year old little boy. His Dad is also the youngest of four and all are close. More and more I think of not having anymore children due to the economy the way it is, and the fact that my son is very active and borderline high maintenance. I just always second guess it on his behalf, I would hate to rob him of the experiences I had growing up with my brothers, and as his dad had as well. Our son has lots of cousins and we have mutual friends with kids but will he be missing out by not having a sibling?

Is this an unethical business practice we can sue for punitive damages?

If she is under the legal age to enter into a legal agreement in your state (18 in most states), then the purchase agreement (a contract-in-fact) is void. They must return your money and she must return the merchandise.

If dogs in service are given medals, is that a bit ruff on the men?

If a trained animal that only knows and does what it is told gets medals...then what's that saying for the humans in the same circumstance.

Is this normal behaviour from a boss?

No it is not acceptable. Is this the same boss who favors her friends above everyone else? Who regularly degrades others in your other question?

Should we pay reparations to England?

The English established the colonies, they fought out all the French, Natives, and Dutch, on our behalf, protected us from Spain, and then they had the GALL to ask us to pay the bills. And we said no. Do we not have a debt to England?

What happened here, and how am I doing?

I think you are over thinking a bit. I would get together with her again and then ask her how she sees you. A confident man with a direct way is very sexy.

How to sell a property as the shared owner (Brother) not agreeing to sell.?

Make peace with your brother and move to your original house along with your family,since you also have an equal share in that property.In this way you can also sell the place where you staying right now.If you try to go legally it would take a lot of years to settle this issue,hence I won't recommend you this option.Its alright such small quarrels can be ended immediately.

I CHEATED ON MY BF, THEN HE CHEATED ON ME, & IT'S ALL JUST A BIG MESS (10 PTS)!!!!!!!!!!?

to be honest there is nothing i or anyone can tell u on yahoo answers that can help. u know u were wrong right? u apologized and regret it right? and uve made that clear so u r doing the right things. u hate joe so just stay clear of him and try to keep him out of ur life. just continue to call mark and he will relize he is always on ur mind and just hope he answers that call just one time and pour your heart out. if he loves u the way u love him then he will eventually answer.. thanks for the Q. questions like these really bring real life experiences that i believe we all can learn from and try to avoid ourselves. i hope everything works out for u. and ur not a terrible person. just dont do that again. we all make mistakes just make sure u learn from this and that it doesnt end with u losing the one u love

How do i go about adopting a baby? Who do i contact what do i do!! Please help?

Ok so me and my husband are 25 years old and we are thinking of adopting what do we need to do, I know my sister in law didnt pay a dime for her adoptive baby but idk, And we are so ready to be parents, We have been trying to have our own baby for 6 yrs already but no best of luck for us which sadens us but this is not the reason we decided we just want to feel the love of our son or daughter and i promise you with all our lifes we will give our child the best of future, Anything needed and mostly everything wanted, ofcourse theres limits, but please anyone comment if you know more about this thanks so much love dario and catarina please pray for us,

Help.. cutting/friendship?

I have a bipolar mom who stresses me out ALL the time about everything. I tried screaming into pillows and other things, but I always felt like I couldnt cope with the stress. So I turned to an endless bobby pin. I used it like a knife, but didnt want to kill myself so i used a bobby pin. This was about a month ago. Day before yesterday, I told one of my friends, my "sister", (who is 4 years older and just graduated HS on may 31) and she was the only one i told, not even my best friend. But today, she told her mom.. Her mom promised not to tell my mom because it would really give me a reason just to do it again. But i had told her not to tell anybody, so I got mad at her... I told her I couldn't trust her anymore when she was the only one i could trust. She said she was just trying to help, but i just said i didnt forgive her because i had trusted her with my biggest secret.. Should I really be mad at her?

Me and my best friend aren't allowed to be friends anymore , what should we do ?

Our moms hate each other and they finally took their hatred for each other out on us . She's my best friend and I'm no longer allowed to see her . FML . But we've promised to stay friends no matter how they feel . We're gonna sneak out and meet up and skype (video chat) and text ! Annnnd we've decided we're going to move to Australia when I turn 18 and marry foreigners because our moms can't do anything to stop us . Just kidding , but what should we do ? Please help us . Thank you .

Can I sue for a cell phone bill?

Ok, I know I should have never done this: I opened up an account on another cell phone company for my husbands cousin, he " promised " to pay lol and he did for awhile, however helost his job and couldn't pay, he again said he would make payments, he didn't, he knee all the account info and also got his ex gf a line under my name without asking, I have an email where he says he would pay and his cousin my husband would be a witness on my behalf, I understand I am liable to pay the bill since its in my name but can I get any of this money back? We got into an argument and he says he will never pay the money. Would a judge side with me)

Are there any reasonable and logical atheists on this website at this time?

I ask that because there is a certain population on earth that claim that they talk to God and hear Him when He speaks to them. They are god fairing people who do what is good in the sight of men and in the sight of God. They live a life of love and forgiveness. Yet, there is another population that states that there is no God. Atheists, just because God does not speak to you or answer you when you call, doesn't prove that God does not exist. You do understand that right? If God is answering prayers of others and moving on their behalf then the burden of proof is on you that He does not exist. You do understand that right? Saying that God has never revealed Himself to you doesn't mean He hasn't revealed Himself to others and saying because He hasn't revealed Himself to you is subjective. It is your experience and your opinion and those are far from facts.

I got written up at work? HELP! Full Points?

This happened to me when I started working at a store. I think it is very common, and since you were brand new to the register, the manager most definitely knows you did not steal. Most people go through it, and they're talking about you being written up because they probably have to and because they want you to take the job seriously. So, you are handling this correctly. I would even ask your manager for more training if you aren't comfortable, which is only fair.

Who should pay for pet bills? Kids/Parents?

Ive heard this a million times, you will get tired of the pet and your parents will be stuck with everything!!!

What are the basic characters of President Bush and President Obama?

Bush, 7 years of the best economy I have seen in my 48 years, Obummer about 3 years of the worst about equal with carter. Ha Its like welcome back carter.

Should I email my ex for closure?

Okay, so I'm having a really hard time getting over my ex and have a few things I feel like I want to say to her. Basically, I was dating this amazing girl for a while back in December and we had been good friends for years and ended up harboring secret crushes for one another. Then when she came and visited me then in December we kissed and revealed our crushes to one another and dated for a couple of weeks. She broke up with me after visiting me at home and getting my family to like her and vice-versa. She claimed that since she was moving to Florida to finish her senior year of college that she couldn't handle the lost distance. She also said that she needed to be on her own for a while and that she wasn't ready for a relationship, saying that she had some demons to fight on her own (she had battled an eating disorder and was still recovering emotionally and psychologically from that as well as fighting off her feelings of neurosis and self-sabotaging her own happiness). I was confused and heart broken because she was the one who initiated everything and kissed me first and told me how much she really liked me and needed me. Then I find out today she's moved to Florida and she is in a long distance relationship with some guy from her home town. I'm really hurt by this and haven't really talked to her since, our friendship now is just awkward as hell, I miss her more and more everyday, and I am torn on what to do. Part of me wants to try and win her back somehow, but the other part wants to make a clean break (delete her from my phone, delete her pictures, and take her off facebook) and I kind of want to write her a message or email explaining everything from my point of view and end it that way after she's heard how I feel, nothing negative I promise. What should I do?

Whenever me and my partner have sex It hurts is this normal?

I have been with my partner for many years now we've both done STI tests and we don't have anything however whenever we have sex with him it hurts.... sometimes during and most of the time after. We use lube when we need to but i find i am allergic to a lot of lubes out there which used to make the problem worse. The pain doesn't stay for very long after we have had sex just for about 5 min or so and then it goes away. Sometimes the pain is quite bad but could this just be because it was ruff? I am just wondering whether anyone has any advice because i don't feel it is something i need to go to the doctors about because it only happens during sex?. If anyone could help me i would be truly grateful.

What's not to love about feminism?

You contradict yourself several times in your description of your question. You state that feminists (including you) seek equal outcomes and opportunities, and yet you state that you will "dominate this planet". You also include an article about the end of men. (Which by the way would mean the end of the human race). Also you state that you will dominate because of you innate superiority, which would be grounds to say that you are entirely sexist. This is an ignorant point of view by the way. I hope these are a few reasons to show you why extreme feminism (which you are describing) is ignorant and detrimental to the human race, ultimately.

I upset my ex does this hurt my chances of reconciling?

So my ex and I were together for six years and about a week and a half ago we broke up and our ten month old daughter and I moved out to Iowa to stay with my family. We broke up bc we were fighting over my jealously and insecurities and him withdrawing from me. He told me while we were breaking up that he didn't love me anymore and he was tired of the fighting. So, I left and have waited for a couple days after getting here for him to contact me. I was literally in agony bc with the split he said maybe in a couple months we could reconcile once we got some of our stuff figured out but he wasn't making any promises. So, today I needed to talk to him about giving me money for our daughter and he called after I called him first. We talked made plans about money for our daughter and then I asked him how he was and he said he was fine just working. I asked him if he missed me and he said he didn't know bc it had only been one week since I had left. I figured that meant he needed more space to figure out if the split really was for the best. However, the drama began bc a mutual friend of ours who are married but live apart reached out to me thru Facebook and was talking to me about the wife left with their two sons a couple months ago bc she was tired of her husbands stuff and her husband stayed with my ex is. So, I was told by my ex that his buddy was cheating on his wife, which btw she's eight months pregnant with their child, and I couldn't help but tell her bc I felt so bad knowing the secret. What I didn't even think of when I did this was that telling her this might make it more difficult for my ex at work and he's trying to get promoted. He called me upset and said it wasn't my business and I am still angry with him for the split so I said it wasn't his business bc we aren't together and I can say what I want. After I cooled down I realized I had broken his confidence and trust by revealing something I shouldn't have put my nose in and I sent him a text saying that. Also, when we were on the phone I found out he was going out tonight and I told him to go get drunk and **** a girl in anger and he responded with "maybe I will". I love him and want our family back and I totally fudged up with this, but my question is does this mistake make it so we can't ever possibly reconcile? I had made it where all the friends I knew from where he is I cut off bc I didn't want to know about him being with girls and rebounding and all that stuff, but now by telling this woman she confirmed he was going out and my heart sank bc I am not going out, I am not partying it up bc I am taking care of our daughter. I just want to know by me spilling the beans over something I shouldn't have if that makes things worse and if I should just move on and let go. I mean he's very upset with me but he knows how much I want our family and how much I want him. What do you guys think?

Light brown hair w/blonde highlights?

i love my hair,ive had them for 4months, i love them but when i get out of the shower its ruff and mushy. i want a product that will make it shinny, silky, smooth and keep the color. it fades fast..tell me name and price and how much it helped

What are the average vet costs for a puppy?

I'm getting a puppy and I'm looking for a ruff estimate of what the vet bills would cost. He is a labrador retriever. I don't have him yet because he isn't old enough. How much would the vet bills cost between 8 and 16 weeks?

Whats the best foundation for me? (:?

well go to different paramacys and ask them what you would need to use they're a really great help they helped me and now im happy

Hi! Plz answer my qu thx?

Hi my sister and I are trying to seee who can get the most visitors at our iPod gernerator website click on the link plz oh n I promise this does not give viruses thx http://tunesgenerator.com/?r=71140 Please don't report qu it doesn't go against community guide lines thx again!

What's With This Guy?

So there's this guy and when he's around other girls (not me) he's really flirty and stuff but when he's around me he goes shy and treats me like a mate he gives me ruff nuts and punchs me in the arm... I don't understand it does anyone know what he's doing? No smart a$$ answers thanx

Is this a nice tribute for my grandad?

You don't need to write it on facebook, it's for you.. not facebook. So make it as long as you want!

I have this pillow and I really like it but if I wash it will it be ruff?

If you us a lot of fabric softener (I recommend liquid not the fabric softener sheets) and do NOT dry it you should be fine.

Which finger do I wear my promise ring on?

I'm leaving for the navy and my girlfriend bought me a ring and the ring is a promise that I will be back. I bought her a ring as well but I'm not sure which finger to wear it on the kay's lady told me to put it on my right Hand but my friend said that I'm supposed to put it on my married finger but I was like dude were not getting married it's just a promise ring and he was like I know, the ring isn't a wedding band but your supposed to wear it on the married finger cuz if it's on the other hand it means your divorced. Idk????

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Hair and eyebrow colour are different?

I am asking this question on the behalf of my friend, he has a sort of chestnut brown colour hair and at the age of 11-12 years old his eyebrow colour had matched. In recent years I had begun to notice that his eyebrows were getting darker and darker and now they're completely black as opposed to his brightish natural hair colour. Does anyone know how this could have happened and if possible is there any solution?

What are some really good comebacks to say when someone tells you that you have alot of acne.?

So my brother makes fun of me for having just a little acne. ( I promise that its just a little) but anyway I wanna know a good comeback to say when he tells me that again.

New in the makeup area..14 year old?

Hi, I think you should quit using foundation and also just use concealer (to cover the under eye circles) and mascara and lipgloss and maybe a little blusher. Also If you still like the soundation try powder foundation.

So this is going to sound shallow/stupid but...?

I'm going to try and make this as short as I can. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years, we live together. Lately, he's been treating me really bad, but I'm attached, so I'm letting him get away with it. Plus, its good 80% bad 20% and all relationship have some bad. My sisters getting married on Saturday and he's been a jerk every step of the way. Anything I have to do with her, he refuses to join, and then makes my life hell for going. (don't touch on how stupid is I'm putting up with it, I already know) so here's my question. We get along like I said 80% of the time, but when its bad its REALLY bad. Screaming at me, calling me names, mocking my family, making threats...just bad. When we get along its fantastic, as perfect as I could ever wish for. We also live together so we benefit from eachother. We have our belongings basicaly combined so if we break up and he moves out, I lose the tv in my bedroom, blu ray player, ps3, and lots of other stuff. I'm not super materialistic, which is why all those things belong to my bf and not me. I don't spend my money on things like that, but he always does. That being said, if we break up, he's taking all his stuff with him obviously, and I've gotten used to it. It makes things really ruff. We've tried splitting before. I always just miss the hell out of him ( i tend to forget the bad and focus on the good) and on top of that I miss the comfort he offered. I feel safe at my appartment when he's there, we cuddle in bed, we watch all the same shows, we do meals together, he helps me when things are to heavy ( i live on the third floor) basically, my life is just a million times easier with him around and I miss him to death when he's gone. I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel stuck. If he goes, my comfort, and possesions go with it. It makes it really hard to cope, and I don't know what to do. He's just gotten so horribly nasty. He's refusing to go the wedding itself by the way, no matter how many times we talk about it, and I went to my sis's bacheloreette party weekend 2 weeks ago, and he argued with me for 3 days before i left, refused to talk to me while i was gone, and partied and got drunk friday and sat. night with friends (and a girl i despise and asked him to stay away from because although she has a boyfriend, she's a total skank) oh and bought cigarettes after not smoking for over a year and then had a HUGE blowout when I got home (which included him lighting a cigarette in our home, which neither of us allow, we have a balcony). Does anyone have advice for how to get out of this cycle or how to cope if he does move out? He also refuses to leave like 2 weeks ago and says I can pack all his stuff, then breaks down and says he's sorry, so it's really hard. Please give me some advice. I'm so lost. Sorry this turned out long...

Any tips for Tattoo in Hebrew?

I want to tattoo something in hebrew (since im of jewish heirtage) and I want to write something meaningfull. Ive been through a ruff year with mental issues and suicidal plans etc. But Im recovered now and I want something to remind me what a strong girl I am and what i have managed to survive for the rest of my life :) Any tipis?

Whats a good dog chest protector?

Go for the second one, the first one is a shirt to keep the dog cool and will not protect the chest (it'll actually probably end up getting ripped).

My girlfriend who i am engage too always bitches at me cus i smoke weed?

When i am high i treat her good as gold, i treat her no different, it do not make sense to me, cu's it do not effect her really, if i treat her the same wheres the problem, no she do not smoke it, she hates it, ya i know but really still, is there any females out there that can shed some light on this please? and try to relate on her behalf? please i want to fix this thx.

Please help with frivolous demand for child support by husband?

You need to tell a lawyer, or the court, about the income he isn't reporting. Plus that you have the kids ... not him.

My dad keep telling everyone I had my first period.?

That's disturbing that he would tell people! Tell him to act his age and that it's mother nature! It's pretty sick that he would talk about that kind of stuff. You'd think he'd try to be understanding....

If an executor grants permission for someone else to deal with an estate, what powers do they still hold?

My mother is the executor of her late mother, as per her will. She has granted permission for her sisters husband to act on her behalf. Can she revoke this as shes still the executor? What powers does she maintain aside from this?

Question about hunting dogs regarding labs and german shepherds?

I was wondering if a labrador retriever and a german shepherd would make good hunting dogs. Especially ruff grouse. Can they point, flush and all that

My best friends dad touched her?

Okay, so my bestfriend just told me she is scared to sleep in her own house, so I asked why? And she said cause she keeps getting touched, long story, short, she told me her dad had been touching her inappropriately, and she made me promise not tell and that she wants to tell my sister, who is her step mom, but she's scared, and she wants me there with her, but my mom won't take me there, so I don't know how to handle this situation. Help shes 15 and I'm 14 years old.

Should i get another dog/puppy?? how do i tackle this problem with my other?

Lady need to socializing big time! Butch sound great, sweet dog. Also Lady needs to learn when its her turn to catch or get the ball. My GSD Saber has a favorite squeaky toy which he loves to fetch, as soon as my boyfriend goes to see him he will grab it and to let him know he wants to play. However when Amy, my dads dog came along she was just 3 months old so she wanted to play with him, however its all about training and making sure your dog listens to you, I made Saber sit and lay down and wait his turn, and when Amy brought it back then I told him to get up and get ready and threw it for him. She needs to respect your other dog, Butch.

Convincing Parents to Let Me Go to Italy?

Are you in college? If so, take out student loans to pay for it. It will be so worth it. I've been to Italy before, and $2000 is a very reasonable price! I payed a whole lot more than that. You absolutely have to take advantage of it. And you're right, it's best to take trips like this when you're young. It will be harder to take off later on when you have a full time job and a family. If you can't get loans, you need to talk to your mom about borrowing the money and agree to a payment plan - agree to pay her back a set amount (whatever you can afford) every month. Make a contract and sign it. Good luck!

Why is my dog shaking and itching?

I have a year old chihuahua and I am obviously gunna take him to the vet, I was wondering what could be the problem. He keeps shaking as if he is wet but he isn't and he does the shaking a lot threw out the day and he has like ruff dry fur around his neck and lower back that's flaky like dandruff. He itches a lot too. I dnt see any parasites

How much is a 1988 printers proof Wheaties box worth.?

I have a 1988 printers proof Wheaties box in mint condition. This is a unique item because it is the box had the Denver Broncos won. They lost in a blow out that year to the Washington Redskins. I'm guessing very few of these exist. I would like to know a ruff estimate of its value. I plan to sell this item on e-bay or at a convention. I need some moving money. Thanks for your help.

My Boyfriend's Mom Won't Let Us See Each Other...Help!?

You are way to young to be caught up in all of this drama. Not even a year yet and sex? I am certainly not against sex, but at least develop a strong foundation before moving on. I would leave the mom alone for a week or two and then talk to her face to face. That will show a lot of character on your part, which looks good. Good luck :)

Can someone read my Grade 8 Valedictorian Speech?

Your introduction needs work and when you started talking, you mentioned yourself a lot. As wonderful as that is, your representing the 8th grade class; your not actually the entire class.

What are your top 10 Fav Hip Hop Songs Of All Time?

I love Eminem but i prefer Space Bound, I need a Doctor, 3 a.m, and a lot more of his songs but Stan would be at the bottom. sorry.

1975 Chevelle malibu classic good car?

Hello everybody.. I just bought a 1975 chevelle malibu classic with 30k original miles. everything is original. its a four door but has a v8 350 engine with a 4bbl carb. It runs. The body is ruff but I am going to repaint it. It has a small leak but i am not quite sure where it is leaking from.. anyways... my dad was never a muscle car kind of guy and he is kind of making me regret me buying the car/; do you think they a nice car? I don't mind fixing it up if i get motivated that it is an alright classic.. Someone please give me some insight asap! I am stressing over this.. Is it worth it to keep it and fix it up or should I just sell it? thank you sooo much!!!

I want to kill myself.?

I'm not happy. There is nothing to live for and no one that cares about me. I never asked to live. I have done harmful things, and no. I'm not emo. There is no god. I don't care what you say. I just want someone to give me a reason. I can't make friends because everyone hates me. I have even got death threats from people. I've told my mom I need help and she promised she'd get me a doctor, but it's been months. I just need a solid answer why I shouldn't kill myself. Though it wont make much of a difference.

Can Anyone Help Me With Changing My Life?

Markie i dont even know what to say, just know that god is not against you he loves you, and never give up on life i feel like i should say that you will find you're answer in prayer i know its helped me when i felt down, keep you're head up be strong and god bless

Adjustable Promise Rings?

I'm looking for a promise ring for my boyfriend but was looking for something simple and adjustable. Is there a website that has cheap and adjustable rings? Any help would be appreciated!

Girlfriend Help Please !!!!HELP!?

me and my girlfreind met at school first saw each other and then we went out it was like love at first sight at the start it was about ruff for a few months break up a few time every time we broke up she fall for one of my friend i no that sounds bad but she is really nice and a good girl she has alot of problems at home and stuff and like stuff but we dated for like 6 months after the last break up but like the other week she dumped me twice in under a week and moved school becuase of "parents" then were dating again but she likes this other guy she says that she only likes him and feelin will fade and she is really sorry about it and crys alot of it and we went to the plaza today and we held each other and we both fetl safe and that it was right again but i just dunno i neec adivce what do yous think about it ?? :? people say she is a slut and to dump her but they dont no her like i do :(

How long will my cat live?

Jasper is a 3 year old out door cat.He is exercised a lot ,and is fed daily. He is slow now, and doesn't play or pounce on my other cat Wallie anymore. But occasionally he will play ruff. I was watching Cats 101 and it said that out door cats live 2-3 years.... Is that because they could be more exposed to diseases? He is a barn cat ,but is a normal sized cat , would that affect anything? Any awnsers are needed!!!

Please yahoo answers be useful ?

Yes apply for welfare! & section 8. I'm pretty sure you will get something! Also apply for college because it'll probably help you get more if they see you're a college student with loans. Scholarships & grants will be plenty available to you. You sound like a wonder person & I will pray for you. <3

H.I.V... what can i do or what u think ?

im not a expert at all on this but the way technology is now adays they should be able to see HIV present i have heard that it can take ten years b4 it shows up but if your having symptoms like that then it would show up i believe. I think that you do not have HIV but i would take a test every 3 months just to be on the safe side i wish you the best of luck.

Worried about mums health?

My mums the type that frets and stresses things over and over and over. She often keeps so much inside and when she finally has had enough it's awful on her behalf. I can see that emotionally/mentally this is killing her and the physical symptoms are worse; she's literally withering away. The skin on her face is hanging onto her bones that's how much it's gotten out of hand, despite the fact shes very careful with her diet (no fat reduced salt intake etc). Her only support system is me and at times my sister, what more can I do to help her? This kills me seeing my mother like that the stress she's under, what can I do to help her get back on track both mental and physical? I've thought about taking her out on a surprise spa treatment but I'm still in high school and in year 12, it's going to be difficult arranging everything.

My health insurer, United Healthcare, won't pay for anesthesia? What gives?

You do not extend the deadline. You pay the bill now, yourself, with money, without using the health insurance yet. When your wife returns and you have the letter from the insurance company, you submit the letter from the car insurance and the receipt showing that you paid the bill yourself to United, and then they reimburse you.

Vet or dentsit!! Confused!?

I will not use a "dentist" who is not also a vet, but not all vets are experts in equine dentistry. I am lucky enough to have two equine dentist vets who travel through this area. That works because most equine dental issues are not emergencies. The reason I will not use a non-vet dentist is because a lot of equine dentists want/need to sedate the horse to do the work, and I will NOT have a lay person sedating my horse.

What is wrong with this budgies overgrown beak?

I went over to my friends house today and her father in law has a girl budgie that looks similar to this but with a white cere. a href="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3192/3021163097_0c3e289fbf.jpg" rel="nofollow"http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3192/3021…/a The beak on the bird is severely overgrown and ruff looking with cracks, the eyes are also swollen and she can't open them all the way. He told me that he cut the beak once and it grew back. Then he said he put olive oil over the eyes as someone suggested to him. I told him he needs to bring it to a vet to get checked out. I'm worried about the bird because it can't eat right with the beak so overgrown. I'm wondering if it has an infection. He also cut part of the wings off when he first got it and shortly after is when the eyes became swollen. Do any of you have an idea of what is wrong with this bird so that I have more info to explain to him why he needs to bring the bird to a vet. Thanks so much!

Really cheesy love help needed!?

I have fallen completely in love with someone who lives in Australia. He promised he loves me too but a day or so ago he told me he was still in love with his ex, doesn't know if he loves me any more and left me. I've asked for another chance and he says there might be one for us but he's not sure. Do I stick around and wait or do I try and get over him? Really need some advice guys, it really hurts!

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Why do i get a feeling of ruff spots behind my two front bottom teeth?

This happen every other month were suddenly i could feel with my tip of my tongue a little ruff spot where it scratches my tongue when i touch it and it feels weird. Anyone know why this happens or get rid of it? Thank you.

Me and my mum had a fight.?

Today I called her, she lives in another country cause my family is divorced, and asked how she is and stuff, also asked her if she promises that she won't shout and start swearing about my dad and to not force me to talk to her parents because I hate them for causing the divorce and making lies about my dad, accusing him of things that don't make sense. She said that's fine in a nice tone. We got talking about how was our day, then I said ' I'm going swimming with my friends' so she said that's good and gives an idea that once I visit her I can teach her how to swim, I say sarcastically about if I have to and overall I won't enjoy that, but still going to do it, she then says fine you don't have to, you don't love your mum fine. I got angry because she said that, she always does that whenever I don't do what she does. She then explains that she loves me always, but I say no because when I lived with her she shouted at me and verbally abused me only because I was my dads son. I close the phone while being annoyed and called my dad while her was out work, explaining the situation, and now I decided not to visit her this summer. I call her back, nearly in tears and explaining how she emotionally makes me guilty and how that annoys me, she then just says 'oh I thought you didn't love me, fine you do' I still get angry about why she even said that in the first place. I told her that I'm not going to visit her and closed the phone.

Is it a sin to give a hand job?

"That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification; Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God:" - I Thessalonians 4:4-5

How can I not be jealous?

Ahh, girl. I am in like the same situation. Truthfully, I hate to say it but I really don't think there is a way to not be jealous. I have just talked to him about it and he saw it hurt me and he stopped being so flirty. Other than that, I just act like I'm not jealous, because I feel like just showing it really doesn't make the situation any better. Plus, being jealous is a good sign, it shows that you really care for him!

Should I sign a paper allowing my 2 brothers to be the executors of estate over me?

My father recently passed away and our family has moved forward with the ironing-out of the more complex details of his life. His death was very unexpected so the paperwork is not very clear. The only official will lists his wife who is also deceased at the moment. My question is at a recent family meeting, we have discussed what is going to happen in the future with establishing an estate and we have all agreed that the assets will be divided 4 ways between all 4 siblings, but that 2 of my brothers will be made the executors on behalf of all 4. In order for this to happen my family has told me I and my other brother will need to sign off allowing them to become executors. Should I do this? Or should I ask to also be named an executor? My only concern is that the executors will not be fair in dividing up the assets.

Can I get a restraining order against my childrens father for them?(florida)?

My children went to their dads for two weeks. We have joint custody and there is no primary. He kept them for two weeks because Father's Day came on the week I was supposed to have them and my sons birthday was that week as well. On Sunday the 26th the boys came back from their father's house and my four year old told me that he no longer wanted to go to his daddy's house and that his daddy was mean to him. I asked him what happened and he said "daddy calls me a little b word and he kicks me." When we got home from picking them up I noticed that he had two bruises on his face and I asked him what happened and he said that his daddy grabbed has face really hard. I asked him why his daddy was doing this stuff and he said because he was bad and threw a temper tantrum. I called the local police and the police where the children's father lives and I also notified DCFS. I took them to the doctor and to the Child Protection Team doctor. The CPT concluded that with what my son was telling them while I was out of the room, that they see it posing a problem for them to go back to their dads. If I go to the courthouse and file a restraining order against him on the kids behalf will they give it to me. My son is scared and he doesn't act the same anymore. He won't sleep without a light on, if I go somewhere in the next room he screams don't leave me... I am so unbelievable stressed and scared for my childrens lives. Does anyone know if they will give me one with what I have told you? Thanks for your time!

I am still lost as far as why I would marry a man who is a bum? I thought he could be a diamond in the ruff an?

d, and like a fool I married him in hopes he would change, but lately I have been reading poverty is a curse and if I married a poor man out of compassion, mabe it was satan in disquise? I was doing well until I met him, because of him I stay on a poverty level, yet my needs are met due to my faith, and trust in God, but the marriage is so dead, he has his own room and me mine, I pay the rent and he pays the utilities, yet I am so lonely, and so tired of being married to him, I don't love him, no intimacy, no communication, no money, no fun, bored, but God says not to divorce, I am so confused?

How to break-in a new motorcycle?

When in doubt read the owners manual. Most owners manuals will specify a certain speed and rpm not to operate above. So, better to baby it. There is a popular web site that tells you to ride it like you stole it. Keep in mind that when you use this technique your engine will not be covered by any warrenty and the place that you received this advice from won't gurantee your engine. Now, it is true that certain bikes like the Yamaha 650 v-star that come with ceramic cylinders don't require a break in period. But, if this is the case it would specify that in the owners manual. Most engines made today still require you to baby it.

Do i have acute psychosis problems?

Im not really sure because you haven't listed enough information but from what I can see it could all be anxiety related, i have anxiety and trust me it can make you think weird things and do weird things, if you don't want your mum to find out then go to a doctor by yourself and get your self checked out, if not then just keep a diary of what you "see" or "hear" and at the end of the month if it gets better then obviously its anxiety, if it gets worse, see a doctor.

Postponement of arraignment to hire different attorney?

Hello, today is currently Sunday the 19th, and I'm a little behind looking for advice, whereas my first court appearance is scheduled for 9am this upcoming Tuesday. The case is a charge of 1 count commercial burglary, felony, currently out on bond with 9 days time served. I have been appointed a public defender, and I do not believe he has my best interest in mind and would like to seek a hired attorney, but obviously I'm limited on time constraints. I've been through this once before, but I can't quite remember proper terminology or how to pursue doing it. I suppose first I would need to notify the public defender and let him know my intentions, but my main concern is the arraignment. Briefly explain to the judge im still seeking council? I believe the last time, he entered a plea of not guilty on my behalf, set a court-date, and filed a change of plea? Does any of that sound correct? So my question directly would be how to proceed.

What quotes are their about misrepresenting others?

like if you speak on behalf of a group of people if you don't represent the actual position of the group

Worried. Somebody, Anybody help.?

your mom didnt know what to do about that. there isnt a manual for raising kids. we do the best we can. trust when i say, she is worried/thinking about it. PLEASE seek help if you need it.

Can you be too gentle during sex ?

my bf is always ruff with me and i like it but when we start have sex it just stops and and gets boring. I'm a freak so i like crazy hot sex be he likes to be gentle and that doesn't work for me... i need help can anybody tell me how to talk about this to him...PLZZZZZZ

OK Catholics a direct answer please?

Why do you not pray TO God alone? No confusion at praying FOR someone, but TO someone.. You pray TO Mary for example to intercede on your behalf. I am not bashing you nor ranting, I am asking why you pray TO others other than God? And please do not lie or twist the truth, I am a former Catholic and know full well the prayers, the special masses, the lighting of candles, etc., these are prayers TO someone like Mary not to God, thus my assertion on making her in equal standing with the Almighty. Hey, I admit I was just as guilty in this sin as you are currently doing and now I repent of it and am ashamed of it.

Does your dog feel empathy?

I was always under the impression that dogs are supposed to feel empathy towards their owners when they are sick or not feeling well, but my dog was jumping all over my husband today when he was recovering from surgery - she is obviously lacking in the empathy department. Just curious - does your dog (s) display empathy? Or do you think this is just wishful thinking on the owner's behalf?

Does he just want me for my goodies?

Okay so I've kind of liked this guy for a while now and we've went through a few ruff patches were he had a girlfriend and I liked him or I had a boyfriend and he liked me. Well ya see were finally able to be together now, right? Well so at first it was goin all good we were flirting and then things kind of started to get a little more serious and we actually started to like each other. But he doesn't want any serious relationship because he just got out of one. So were kind of like friends with benefits but meaning mire ya know? We talk everyday. But not really in school. If we pass each other in the hallway well like kinda touch hands ya know how couples do. Well we kind offight a lot but it's over stupid stuff and that has almost ended what we have one time. Well we've done sexual stuff before, just second base before. I'm scared he's just using me, because why not talk in school or hang out somewhere where everything doesnt have to be a big secret. Because if he really liked me he wouldn't be afraid to show me offs to his friends or hell even talk at school, right? Ah I don't know what to doooooo. Your guys help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you:)

Im Freaking my boyfriend out! what should i do?

I am totally and completely in love with my boyfriend we plan on getting married. We are very open and honest with each other and some personal issues i have are freaking him out. I have been sexually abused at a young age and tho we have never actually talked about it i know my mom has been too and i think it was by her father. I have aways had an issue with trusting men and feeling weak and powerless as a women .. not liking the role women play in society and i have always been jealous that im not a male. I always say things like i rather be a guy. I am very much a girl tho is every way and i don't actually in reality want to be a man or in a mans body i just want to be treated like a guy ... if that makes any sense. I at one point questioned my sexuality because i was so asexual i thought that maybe i was gay ... but i think its just because i am so scare and angry with guys that i don't want to be with them and i think im also screwed up sexually and i just have trust issues. although i have been with a few guys in the past i have never actually wanted to have sex with anyone until my boyfriend i just did because it was expected of me and i got into situations that i couldn't back out of. i always felt sick and hated it so much i never enjoyed it it didn't feel good i just all around hated it . even at first with my boyfriend i didn't really enjoy it i was always so uncomfortable and my head wasn't there i was in panicky mode and thinking of a1000 things at once. Now that i feel comfortable with him and safe the sex is amazing i love it and it brings us closer together. He is freaking out because he knows that i have been attracted to women in the past ... not really sexually like i said im not that sexual but i dont know what it was. also i have always thought there was somthing wrong with me because i didnt like sex so for a while i was trying to fix that problem and one of my friends suggested trying to watch some porn and learn how to please myself to become more comfortable with the idea of sex ... most of it is guys being so ruff with women and disrespectfull that i hated it and found lesbian porn more appealing. my boyfriend found lesbian porn on my computer.I am also an artist and draw naked girls all the time. he thinks im bisexual and its freaking him out a little the truth is that i dont even know if i am or not i have been attracted to women i could actually have sex with a women i suppose but its not somthing i feel the need to do . i really only want to have sex with him for the rest of my life he knows i will never cheat on him and he loves me alot hes just confused as am i. I dont think im bisexual i just think i have issues from past abuse i have no problem not that i would have a problem with being bisexual ... i dont think it matters i have already found the person i want to stay with ... what do i do about this?