Relationship ruff patch more like pot hole?!?!?!?

I used to smoke pot every day. I started dabbling in other drugs as well, and I got a tad out there. I decided to clean up my act and was 100% sober. Around the same time I started dating a girl. We'll call her Amber. Amber and I had many great times, as well as bad, most of them caused from me not liking the fact that she did drugs. We dated for nine months. A few years later she passed away from health problems (not from drugs). As I sit and type these words, I can't help but think about how much all those times I got mad for her drug use didn't matter. I loved her, and still do. Just because this country has bullshit laws against substances which I strongly think should be legal, and people are brainwashed to think drugs are these super bad things that will only destroy your life, doesn't mean it is true. It is up to each individual on the actions which they take. All people should have the freedom to put whatever the **** they want in their own bodies. If it really bothers you that much, move on.