Do you think it's hopeless to continue to wait until I'm married to have sex?

In relation to the question above: I feel as though it's hopeless to continue to wait I have strong values and don't want to mess up. If I messed up I wouldn't have anything to offer my future husband not only would I not have anything to offer him but it isn't right on my behalf. I feel as though guys don't care about good girls in this if I can't get it from you I'll go else where and get it society. Maybe my standards are to high idk I always thought a guy would be flattered to have a decent girl I guess not in the 21st century. Please NO RUDE COMMENTS THANKS for the input :)